I get alot of mails from guys asking for some good birthday surprise ideas for girlfriend and believe me i keep getting these mails very frequently. Keeping this in mind today i have jotted down some of the best birthday surprises you can give her. So Just get along with me through the list and find some of the ideas that you can definitely try.
Having a girl friend is related to all the key aspects of life like mental, physical and emotional. There is one more aspect to this relationship which is crucial than all the others mentioned above. This is the psychological aspect which plays a significant role in lifting the spirits of the loving relationship between a guy and a girl.
Generally, the relationship between a young boy and a girl tend to be emotionally intense which itself acts a deterrent to the relationship many a times. Things get goofed up often more so by the boys due to the attitudinal differences between genders. In general, girls tend be more emotional and expecting than boys. Boys tend to be carefree and live life according to their own terms. While girls expect their boyfriends to be thinking of them all the 24 hours a day, for boys girlfriends are just a part of life and treat them so too. Girls are guided by their heart and boys get their guidance from their brain. Girls are more emotional while boys tend to be highly physical.
All the above differences between the genders pose a huge challenge for the boys to behave in the expected manner. It takes herculean efforts from the boy’s side to satisfy his girlfriend. Girls never get satisfied so easily unless they witness high levels of honesty and dedication to the relationship from the boy’s side. This gap which exists in between the boy and the girl appears to be an every minute affair and the boy is always at the confused end.
If boyfriends understand the open secret that seasoned men uses to convince their women, they can escape from these never ending pitfalls in their relationship with the girlfriend. This secret can be taken as the girl’s strength from a girl point of view and her weakness from a boy’s point of view. Whether it is the girl’s strength or weakness, the true boyfriend might as well leverage this secret to his advantage to keep his girlfriend in high spirits at all points of time. Want to know the secret to impress your girl friend and pep up her spirits? Here it goes.
Girls love gifts. There is no one girl in this world who would say no to gifts particularly from her boyfriend. Girls relish getting gifted by their boyfriends again and again irrespective of the worth of the same. Even during situations when the gift is very much expected, girls tend to react in an excited manner which may even appear queer to the boys at time. But the fact remains – girls like gifts. So boyfriends, what are you waiting for? Amaze your girlfriend on her special day gifting her in a creative manner. Here are some surprising ideas to gift to your girlfriend on her birthday.
Birthday surprise ideas for girlfriend
A bouquet of candies
This is another open secret that all boys must know. Get a bouquet of candies made. Ensure you choose those candies that are your girlfriend’s favorites. Add colourful flowers to the candy bouquet. The choice of candies and the colours of the flowers will speak volumes about your love to your girlfriend bringing her further close to you.
Accessories and clothing
Every girl’s wardrobe overflow at all points of time. However, when she gets an extra dress or a pair of Slippers, it gives immense pleasure to the girl. The new dress and slippers gets added to the wardrobe. Particularly when the dress is from her boyfriend, she preserves it like it is the costliest gift in the world. Gift your girl friend her favourite dress in her favourite color. Match it with accessories and slippers. Amaze her with your understanding about her tastes and preferences.
Music concert or movies
Plan in advance and get two tickets for her favorite concert or movie that she wanted to watch for some time now. Make it a surprise for her. Gift her with notes full of romantic wordings right from your heart. Get all that she would enjoy during the program. Ensure you do every little thing that makes her happy during the whole time she spends in the program.
This is a sure shot gift that would be relished by your girlfriend throughout her life time. Remember, girls value emotions more than money. Exploit this basic nature of girls and give them gifts that are prepared by you. For instance, make a greeting card and write all your thoughts about her and how you feel about your relationship or hand made cookies. Mention your plans for the future you intend to share with her. We bet this would be the most precious gift that she will value till her last breath.
Keep surprising her the full day
Gifts need not necessarily be a onetime affair on her special day. Make arrangements probably through your friends to deliver a surprising gift to your girlfriend every one hour. If possible, keep informing them about your whereabouts since you are going to be with her the whole day. Capture every moment of the day, in particular when she receives every gift in an hour’s gap. Enjoy those emotional moments with her in all genuinity and care
That special gift hampers
Do not go in for readymade gift hampers available in the market when you make this your choice for gifting your girlfriend. Search and collect each and every favorite item of your girlfriend. Fill up the gift hamper with all that she likes and would love to receive as gift from you. Ensure each and every gift inside the hamper speaks your love for her in an explicit manner. Amaze her with your loving words written all across the hamper. Remember, a genuinely prepared gift hamper will invade her mind to a great extent showing the real you to her.
Throw a surprise party
Arrange for a surprise party on your girlfriend’s birthday. Invite all those friends whose presence she would relish. Make all the arrangement in a secret manner and ensure the news doesn’t reach her through any other sources before her birthday. Take her to the venue casually for a lunch or dinner and capture her expression when she sees all her close ones waiting for her to cut the cake. You will her permanent Hero after this party.
Cook for her
Any girl would expect her boyfriend to know about her tastes and preferences. Astonish your girlfriend cooking her favourite food in your place. Invite her to your place to spend some time. When she comes with no expectations, take her to the dining table and make her eat her favorite food cooked by you. We are sure this will bring tears in her eyes showing how important she is to you. Remember, it is not just salt and sugar that makes the cooking tasty but the love you added in it which she will realize tasting the same.
Celebrate not her birthday… but her birth week
A birthday need not necessarily be a one day affair particularly when it is your girlfriend’s. Start celebrating your girlfriend’s birthday one week in advance. Keep sending all her favourite things as gifts multiple times every day. Immerse her in the ocean of gifts. Surprise her at unexpected times every day. Take her out to a special place every day. Do all those crazy things that would make her happy. Make her birthday the perfect climax gifting her that ultimate gift you had reserved for the day.
Invaluable gifts with a personal touch
Give her gift items where both your initials are sculpted. This requires a lot of planning. Choose all those gift items where your initials can be mentioned. Some gift items we could think of are small sized pillow, tea cups, key chains and watch among many other things. Remember, what get engraved need not be just your initials but even words or jargons that are very personal to you. This will create so much of emotions in your girlfriend every time she sees them or uses them.
Spend time at SPA
Any girl friend would love to spend some sensuous time with her boy friend on her special day making the da memorable for a life time. Plan for a SPA well in advance and block a slot in a calm and serene SPA parlor. Get rejuvenated together physically as well as mentally. At the end of the special day, return back home with high spirits and lifted up emotions. This will strengthen your bond for many years to follow.
Unforgettable dinner date
Spending quality time with your girlfriend in a romantic cool environment creates so much of peace in her mind. Book the dinner in a decent place where both of you get enough privacy to stay close to each physically as well as emotionally. You can make the dinner date more memorable by arranging to play her favourite music and ordering for food that she likes the most. She would totally get amazed if you gift her something that she has been yearning for a long time.
Drive her down to a private place
Nothing is more valuable for a girl than spending time with her man in an undisturbed manner. Take her on a long ride through a scenic way. Girls like to talk a lot. Allow her to pour all her feeling during the drive. Listen to her in a genuine manner and respond where ever you need to. Understand the depth of her love for you and do all that will reciprocate the same feelings to her. Switch off your mobile and stay by her side physically as well as mentally. You will automatically realize the bonding between you getting strengthened.
A romantic Photo collage
Collect all the photographs you took with your girlfriend on various occasions well in advance. Take genuine efforts to place them in a meaningful manner. This is a must since you must be able to explain the order of the photograph to your girlfriend when both of you see the collage together on later days. Spend quality time in selecting the shape and materials to be used in making the collage. Add designs and colors that your girlfriend likes the most and give all possible personal touch to add emotion to it. Ensure your photo collage expresses your emotions for her to its fullest extent
Be with her
The one perfect gift that every girl expects from her man is spend quality time with her. Refuse to accept any other appointments or meetings on her special day. Promise her and keep up your promise to be with the whole day, till she feels exhausted. Remember, she will only feel exhausted physically. Emotionally she would just want the day to have more than 24 hours so she can spend more time with you. Make her feel your love for her in every possible way using every opportunity that comes along your way. Your presence by her side is highly important for her than anything else in the world.
While you amaze her with all the gifts and surprises, remember your feelings for here is more important to her than anything else in this world. She does not see your gifts by their value but looks your genuine love for her in them. She will find a special place to safeguard them for her lifetime. The more intimate your gifts are, the more strengthened your bonding will be.
Your girlfriend’s birthday is a great occasion to show all your love that you had not expressed during normal days. It offers excellent opportunity to show the heights of love you have for her and the closeness you feel with her. Immerse her in your love and make her forget to breathe. After all, your girlfriend is a lifetime relationship and you mean the world to her. At the end i hope these ideas will turn out to be the best birthday surprises for her which she can never forget.